I believe that everyone should try hard and work hard for what they want. People make mistakes and are wrong all the time which is the most human thing ever. As long as you accept that and don’t judge others too hard – also not yourself – and for example admit to your faults and wrongdoings than that’s okay in my eyes. It’s also important not to be selfish but to be reasonable. Fighting on your own works but it doesn’t feel good and most times won’t even work out. People aren’t perfect – nothing is. Just know that everyone shits and really nobody knows what they are doing